Sunday, June 13, 2010

Insights --thanks ms. hannah!

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
True! but there are things that makes life worth living for.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
Or check the surrounding first, you might step on 'something'. :)) seriously, ask a friend (that you trust) to accompany you, hold each others hands and take the next step. It will help you erase the doubts.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
I agree! so instead of hating anyone, just erase them completely out of your life. That way, your world will be more happy and colorful!  

4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
Well, sometimes, I'm guilty! hehe! Can't help it especially if the situation requires you to be serious. But when I'm okay, I'm happy.  

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
This is not applicable for me, why? because I don't have any credit cards at all!

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Ah.. Err.. oh well. Sometimes I wanted to win an argument! But as you grow wiser (i prefer wiser than older) You understand the concept of acceptance and understanding then you'll realize that some things are not worth fighting for.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
I still prefer to cry alone at night.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
For me, it's not okay to get angry with Him, though I am not the religious type of person, I am more of a spiritual person. We, as human, have to be humble for Him. We should accept that some things are not meant for us and some things are meant to be taken away from us, after all, that's life.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
Though  I'm the kind of person who likes planning ahead, I must say that as of this moment, I haven't thought about it. I save money but its not exactly for my retirement.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
I agree. Chocolates makes me happier.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
Everything has its own time. When there is already acceptance, forgiveness will follow. After all, no matter what you do, your past will always be part of your life.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
We also get hurt and when you get hurt, you cry. Your children won't take it against you if they see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others'.
True! God made our life different from one another. We are all unique individuals. There might probably some similarities but there will always be something different and unique to you.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
And why does it have to be a secret anyway? there is something wrong with the "relationship" right?

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
True. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. Proven correct! and thank God, He doesn't change.

16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying. Correct! Correct! Per-fect!

17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
Take one step at a time!

18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
I believe that we are all writers. You just have to be confident on the things that you write and you'll be successful!  

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
Right!

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
Fight! Fight! and of course don't give up!

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
So Filipino..but we have to change it. Make it: Everyday is special. Its like Live you life to the fullest!

 
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
So me. I plan things ahead but when I'm there, I go with the flow. *Though, i tag along my plans, it is usually handy!  

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
I like this. I am trying to do unusual things now, I try to go to places I like. Life is too short.

24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
 

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
You make your own destiny. You are the captain of your ship.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
Just learn from your mistakes and enjoy life

27. Always choose life.  

28. Forgive everyone, everything.
Like what I usually say, in time, you will be able to learn to accept and forgive.

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
 Live your life the way you want it. Its your life anyway.  

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
Exactly my point!

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
Nothing is permanent in this life except CHANGE and DEATH.

32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
I thank ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS for always being there for me. Kate, Sheena, Jinky, Ruby, Kitin, Paula, Rose, Aires, Marga, Eyn, Kc, Mean, Rach and Fely. Super thank you for accepting me for who I am. I love you all.

33. Believe in miracles.
God has His own way of showing us little miracles of life.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
I love you too, God!

35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
  super like

36. Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.
Looking forward with growing old with YOU.

37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.  

38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
I'll do that.  

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
Like what I told you, God has His own way of showing us little miracles of life.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
Savor it for a moment then move on.

41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.  

42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. And this includes toxic people. You read it right. Toxic people. Sometimes, even so-called friends can be toxic. So rid yourself of that excess baggage. --I agree with ms. Hannah!

43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
Its better to love than not to love at all.

44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
Love all the things that you have and thank God for having them.

45. The best is yet to come.  Let's all be optimistic!

46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.  
Life goes on.

47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
I practice it everyday.

48. If you don't ask, you don't get.
Correct. Ask for forgiveness, ask for love, and ask for life!

49. Yield.
You can't have all the attention so give way to those who need it most.

50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.
The kind of gift that only God can give.

10 comments:

  1. nainggit ako sa inyo ate yumi! nakigaya na din :))

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  2. ang ganda talaga nito. nakakadagdag ng insights tungkol sa sumasagot. ako rin, isang araw makikigaya. in the meantime, makikibasa lang ako ng mga sagot niyo.

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  3. agree. nice neish. thanks for sharing. kakatuwa kasi di ko pa kayo nakikita and yet i know much about you already. kaya carla, pagnagka time gawa na.

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  4. saktong sakto kasi etong panahon para magsagot ng ganito :D

    *yung iba wala akong masyadong comment :D

    so excited to meet all of you in person! :D

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  5. ang ganda ngang sagutin. hehe! laglag-sarili! :p
    pero neish, you proved to me na napaka-optimistic mong tao. :))
    sana nga makilala din kita someday.

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  6. naku ate yumi, may times din na nega-mode ako.. pero sayang ang "law of attraction" :D

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  7. sasagot din ako pero baka di pa ngayon, parang di pa umaandar ang utak ko. Nice, nice, Neish! Ganda ng insights na 'to. :)

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  8. now q lng nabasa toh ah..super agree aq...n tnx din 4 being der..more memories to make with yah..mwah

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